Today we went and seen Dr. Dentist!
Last year when I took Jonathon to meet a pediatric dentist in the same office where my older boys go it was a complete disaster. She did not take her time with Jonathon and he ended up screaming so bad that he had broken blood vessels in his face. And I knew we did not want her. And she said" I can't help you" Really.......
We found a great dentist about 1 hour from our home. We went and met with him and he set up a procedure at Childrens Hospital of Michigan to get xrays, teeth cleaning and anything else that needed to be done.
Jonathon went in April and had his xrays, teeth cleaned and a space added in between his two front teeth. He had cavities in there because his teeth were too close together. It was out patient and when he was finished we took him home.
When we went for our follow up visit Dr. Dentist gave me some ideas on what to do to get Jonathon to brush.
Over the past 6 months I have made sure that Jonathon has brushed his teeth in the morning and at night. There have been times when I have said "Why bother" He just doesn't like it and he is probably going to have a ton of cavities and have to be put under again!! Plus it's very frustrating that I have to do this on my own. (sorry to say, but hubby is not much help) But then I say to myself that would not be fair to Jonathon so we brush anyway. Some days are good and some days are bad. The good days are around more and more.
I was worried about our appointment today. I have been telling Jonathon for 1 week now, getting him ready. Hoping that he understood. I was very very nervous on the way there today. I couldn't even drink my coffee. Then we were late, because I made a wrong turn.....OOPS.
We signed in at 8:33a.m. We had a few minutes to wait so I got out Jonathon's IPAD. He sat quietly and put some puzzles together on his Ipad. Other kids looked from a distance. I thought it was pretty cool. Then we were called. Okay here we go......Put the Ipad away and followed the nurse back.....got a few feet and then Jonathon noticed everyone in dr. gear and stopped.....and said "NO" and turned around to leave.
I grabbed his hand and told him it was okay. That they were not doctors, that they were dentist helpers. And the nurse helped confirm that with him. I practically had to drag him back to the room and then he seen the "chair" Oh my!! He didn't want any part of that.
As I was putting him in the chair and getting out blue puppy.....Dr. Dentist was explaining what he was going to do and the staff was getting ready and as I am getting out blankie, headphones, they are starting and Jonathon begins to cry and scream......I quickly tell him "ok, let me get your music" I grab my cell phone and quickly scroll through to find Elmo Lets go Tubbin.....This calms Jonathon down some where he at least is not screaming. One Dr. Dentist.....3 staff members and mommy .....I just kept talking to Jonathon and telling him how proud I was and that he was doing great and that he had blue puppy and that he was almost done. And before we knew it......we were done.
I spoke with Dr. Dentist quickly. He told me that he was so proud of me..."me".....I even said "me"? He reminded me how I came to him upset and looking for help. And that he told me what I needed to do and I did it. And that Jonathon would not be getting a good clean teeth report if I had not listened. WOW was all I could think! And it made me proud. Jonathon has no cavities! He was put into a drawing to win a $25.00 gift card. And we will go back in 6 months. And hopefully in 6 months it will be a little better for him. We signed in at 8:33a.m. and we were back in the van at 9:03a.m.
So I took him to Walmart to pick out a new toy for being such a big boy and letting Dr. Dentist clean his teeth. He picked 2 monster trucks....He is big into Monster Jam right now. He now has Hot wheels and Grave Digger!!
I am so proud of Jonathon. I know how much certain things scare him. Like the noise of the dental tool to clean his teeth. To sit there and let the dentist clean his teeth and not wear his headphones. Phenomenal! Amazing! I will always do my best to make sure he is happy, safe, and protected!
I love you Jonathon Joseph! Rest well, you did great today!!!!!!